Why do negative things always happen and repeat to me?

There are moments in life when we ask ourselves this question with pain, with anger or with resignation: PWhy does the same thing always happen to me? Why do I attract the same type of partner? Why do I always have money problems? Why does it seem like when everything's going well, something ruins it?

Sometimes we think it's bad luck or a punishment, but many times it's karmic cycles. Patterns that repeat themselves because there's something we haven't healed, learned, or let go of.

Breaking Repetitive Spiritual Cycles What is a Karmic Cycle?

A karmic cycle isn't a condemnation. It's an opportunity. It's a repetition that life presents to you so that you can become aware, change something, and grow. These cycles come from this life, from previous ones, or they can even be burdens inherited from your ancestors.

We repeat until we learn. Until we face what hurts and choose to act differently. But to do that, we must be willing to observe ourselves honestly.

How do you know if you're stuck in a cycle?

If you notice that:

You always choose people who hurt you or abandon you.
You try hard and don't see results.
You change location or job, but the problem remains
You sabotage yourself when things are going well… then yes, you are probably in a cycle that has not been healed.

Spiritual exercise to detect your repetitive cycle

Grab a pen and paper. In a quiet place, ask yourself these questions and answer them honestly:

What situation has been repeated at least three times in your life?
How have I felt each time it happened?
What reaction or decision do I repeat in these cases?
What would have happened if I had acted differently?
What do I think I should learn from this?

When you're done, light a white candle and offer this prayer to your guides:

“Show me what I haven't seen yet. Help me break out of this cycle with wisdom. Let repetition become learning, and pain, growth.”

Getting out of a karmic cycle is not always achieved alone.

Breaking the cycle is possible, and sometimes, if it's too deep, we may need a spiritual guide. This spiritual guidance is necessary to see what we don't see, to cleanse what isn't ours, and to cut the ties that bind us without us realizing it.

If you have been feeling for some time that your life is going in circles and you do not know how to get out of this situation that brings pain and stagnation, in Ashé pa mi Cuba we help you understand your spiritual cycle and break it with awareness and guidance.

Write to us when you are ready to take the stepSometimes we can spend half our lives in the same situation. The first step is choosing to do it differently and asking for help. Blessings to you.